You are dealing with someone who has lost the companionship of long time spouse, and is probably working through the grief of that loss and the challenges of caring for her as she declines It's important to get a better understanding of all the factors involved: is your friend's wife still mentally competent? Does your friend still visit her regularly, and is she aware of his presence when he is there? How do each of your religious beliefs affect this situation?Are there children involved, and how might your relationship affect them?Your life experiences are leading you to growth in understanding that could be helpful to others.It is always good when you can pause before judging yourself or another.This sounds like a very difficult situation; I wish you all the best of luck.There is an old saying that you can't help another unless you have walked in his moccasins.She has had repeated strokes and is not in the best shape in the world. He has begged me not to let anything happen to what we have. He can't take me places he wants to because he is afraid it will get back to his wife.It took him a few years to get me to cross the step to become involved with him. We do go places and I enjoy spending time with him, but it goes agains't everything I use to be believe in. Linda Adler is the director of Pathfinders Medical in Palo Alto, California.
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