Give him the opportunity to show you how he feels with no assistance or pushing or convincing."Men will start ramping up their displays of courtship for you over the next few dates if they get really excited about you.
He's going to hopefully be texting you, emailing you, and trying to lock you down for another date.
"If his intentions are sexual, the nature of the conversations will be sexual," says Frances.
He'll invite you out to a nice second-date dinner, and then invite you back to his place.
In other words, it's his most honest moment, and the time for you to ask questions and take the answers at face value .
If you're both looking for the same thing, you've made it through checkpoint number one.*Curveball #1: The guy who texts you nonstop, way too soon.*It's good if a guy isn't afraid to get in touch, but if he launches into constant contact before you've even been on a date, it's a bad sign.
What you want to see after the first date is if he really likes you too.A guy who wants to really be in a relationship with you and is really ready for a partnership doesn't need to push like that.Guys who want to seriously date you want to see you in person."On dates 2 and 3..."On the second and third dates, what I like to have my clients do is really pay attention to how consistent he is.Or "he'll say, ' Why don't I cook dinner for us at my place? The best way to not get into a sexual situation that you're not ready for and keep him on simmer is: Do not invite him indoors or go indoors with him on those first three dates."On the 4th date and beyond...If all goes well through the first three dates, he's courting you and making plans, following up, asking questions about you, and says he wants the same things in life as you, then it's time to move on to the next phase of dating.He'll take you out to concerts, he'll take you out to restaurants, he won't be pressuring you for sex, he'll keep trying to get to know you."Some guys are really horny, let's face it. But if he's looking for a wife, he'll be looking for more than just a naked body and can make it through two or three dates without taking off your clothes.